Friendship!!!
Today forum has this thread on "Friendship" Thread starter mention about recently something happen in his class tats about friendship.... A girl in his class kena backstab by her friend and she feel sad over it....
And so thread starter ask us: "so what are true friendships like to u ppl?"
"Friendship is like cookies. You won't know when it will be broken, and be eaten up by.Because some cookies don't have cream, just like some friends do not have bonds between them, they tend to break very easily, juz like cookies don't stick together.
Quoted from: Thread Starter blog...
For me... Last year i try to did and essay on "Friendship" And actually i got it written and wanted to summit it for the competition. But in the end i did not and ended up with another essay but on a similar topic. I even did a email survey to some of my friends regarding friendship.
Personnally i feel friendship is based on "Trust", "Understanding", "Care", "Concern" and also "Communication"... Which they might be others too that i am lacking.. But to me... This 5 things is a powerfull and important thing to have in order to maintain a good friendship. "Friendship is different from a "Love Relationship" For love if we find we are not suitable for each other we can easily change a parther but for Friends its different. When you make a friend its for a lifetime... My didi once told me this, "No one is made PERFECT for another"... True.. I believe what he says... But for me.. I feel there are also times whereby we can make a compromise on this.. If you think this friend is worthwhile, for you to compromise and make your friendship better.. Why not... Just go ahead and do it...
"Friends is something that is special it creates history in our life. Having this history as a memory is really a blessing. Nothing beats having a group of friends sticking with you."
For me now i still maintain my current friendship with my group of friends. Which i think it really worth doing it.. I have never felt it a hassle to do anything for them. It comes deep in me and i am glad and happy to be with them. I will continue to create my history with them...
"The one who takes your hand, but touches your heart, is a true friend"