I am so piss of by the way my dad answer me or in fact us at times... He is one of a weird person i ever seen... Have anyone of u guys here see a dad who answer in this way.
Kids: "Dad let go in a holiday"...
Dad: "I only go to Antarctica south pole"....
Look at the way he reply us... Come on.. You don't even wanna travel to Malaysia and you talking this kind of rubbish. I dun see any communication between us.. And its not me who does not give him a chance. It's him who does not want to give me a chance. I just cannot stand my dad give me this kind a attitude. I am not trying to be rude to him. But many at times its him who is make me want to raise my voice and be agitated over his answers.
Recently, me really think its about time i should go back home and be with my family. As i am away for quite sometime. I am also looking forward to create something new with them. And i actually requested something with my dad about wanting to renovate my own room. The paint is old, the furniture design was old. And the design was 6years ago and was abit kid. So i suggested to him that i wanna renovate my room. And will want to remove everything. I did not ask him for a single cent to do all this. I save and plan on my own. But still its his house and therefore i seek his permission. Telling his the design was old and need a fresh coat of paint and etc. And i told him i want to renovate the room was because me feel like coming back home to stay. He agreed to it. But he say he is busy and cannot help me. Too me is no much of a different. I don't see my dad help me much this so many years. In fact i don't need any of his help. I can just ask any contractor to remove those things in the room.
So after he agreed to it, i proceed to plan how to renovate my room and also the colour of my room. After i did the drawing, i scan and showed my sister. He told her i drew rubbish, and if i wanted a concept which is like ZEN look. i could just shift over to my guest room as the room is in a ZEN colour. And he got no time to help me. I cannot change my bed cause the bedding is expensive.
People see what i mean. Look at his answer again...... I am getting piss. I talk to him nicely telling him i want a change. And i want to do it before i shift in cause since i am not sleeping in there now, it will be much more easy for me to renovate. Now he is eating back his own words over this. I am really tired of this.
I now do have second thoughts in going back to my home. I am not threatening him with this. Ii am just feeling even before i shift back home again. You already having this problems. How do i endure if i were to really shift back home.
I just want a room of my own where i can spend my time happily in it. He can buy his own stuff as he like but the old system he just chuck in my room. Thinking i will not mind. Please spare a thought for me too.. I am your son....
And please ppl who happen to read all these. I am not trying to bad mouth my dad. Cause this is the truth. Guess i need to get my granny to talk to him.